How come some people survive media interviews and others fail miserably?
The reason people like Mel and John seem to fail is they don’t know when to keep their mouths shut. They say outrageous things to reporters and then act surprised when what they said shows up in the story.
And for some reason they’ve forgotten a reporters job is to ask questions, even the ones you don’t want asked. That’s their job.
Your job is to expect it, plan for it, prepare answers and understand it is part of the job description attached to the position of “Celebrity”
You need the media to promote your works, create a buzz about you and the project or album you are selling.
So let’s say your Mel Gibson, you’re out there promoting you new movie and the interviewer asks you a couple of questions about your personal struggles. Things like drinking or anti-Semitism come up, so do you get angry because the question was asked?
Do you take it out on the interviewer?
To Gibson’s credit he tried to answer the question and bridge to another topic by suggesting the interviewer move on. Now that’s not bridging, it’s just a blatant attempt to change the topic.
Bridging is changing the topic in such a way that anyone watching along with the interviewer follows you to the point you want to make.
In the cast of Gibson, he could have said, I see the point you’re trying to make, but let’s look at the facts of my life over the past 18 months. During that time I have done a number of things (he can easily list off four or five things) to address some of my previous challenges as well I have been involved in the production of a great move Edge of Darkness.
He can easily keep coming back to his objective which is to promote his movie.
Stay on topic, stay on message.
Mel sort of did that and then he forgot the camera and mic are always on even when you’re not supposed to be on air. He called the interviewer an asshole.
Rule number one, the camera and the mic are always on. The countless examples of people demonstrating they are not what they appear to be because they expected the camera or audio operator to turn off the equipment is long.
Singer John Mayer on the other hand needs to remember he’s in control of what comes out of his mouth. He can not expect the reporter to do that for him.
He opened his mouth and told the world his former girlfriend Jessica Simpson is "sexual napalm" and he confessed an aversion to sleeping with black women.
His response when there was outrage to his comments was to blame the media. That’s it! he stated, I’m not talking to the media anymore.
Wow, what a response. John you have no one to blame but yourself. It’s your ego that got in the way, not the reporter.
The lesson we can all take from Mel and John is to remember we do have control over what goes to air or to print, it begins and ends in our mouth.